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Adoption-Living the Trauma

       Adoption is an amazing thing to endure.  Whether you have been adopted or are adopting a child, or even giving up a child for adoption, it all has it's ups and downs.  I am an adoptee .  I never really knew my full story until I met my birth family when I was 25.  Growing up, I never knew where I came from or who I really was. My parents did tell me that I was adopted but that was all they were willing to share.  Even though it was a closed adoption , I always knew that they knew more than they let on.          At age 25, I was able to find my adoption agency (my adopted mom had told me), and reached out to them.  The only thing they could offer was a website that I could post on to potentially find them.  After posting, not long after and miraculously enough, my birth mom reached out.  I was very hesitant to believe it was her until she sent me a photo of herself.  It was then that I crie...